My View on Dating

[KJ]

This will be a rundown of what I think someone should do, not do, and my analysis of other viewpoints when it comes to building a relationship.

Before I divulge methods of meeting people, let me quickly describe what I think as 'risky/stress traits'

• Body Modifications
• Unpleasant Personality

Let's start off with Online Dating.

I think online dating is probably the current definition of risk behavior and arrogance. If you intend on finding any person of quality, you won't find one, generally speaking. My theory on the dating dilemma stems from the previous observation.

'Cold Approaching'

I think this way of interacting with someone in real life is also pretty vain and essentially a form of IRL online dating. You probably won't find any person of high quality either since less risky people might be less receptive to random strangers.

'Social Circle'

I think this is the best way of finding someone if the social circle consists of high-quality people. You should be able to find a good potential partner this way as long as you're a decent being and actually relate to that person. From there on, build a quality relationship with that person.

 

[Gargantuan]

Spot on but this whole dynamic sucks so much when you're not able to meet girls through your social circle ffs, which is the case for me as well.
Maybe I should start to look into a new hobby or something idk.
Cold approaching is retarded so I can only cope with navigating the minefield of OLD which I know is never going to result in anything meaningful

But then again, I don't believe that dating is worth it anyway when there's no mutual dependency and you cannot relate to each other.

 

[KJ]

Spot on but this whole dynamic sucks so much when you're not able to meet girls through your social circle ffs, which is the case for me as well.
Maybe I should start to look into a new hobby or something idk.
Cold approaching is retarded so I can only cope with navigating the minefield of OLD which I know is never going to result in anything meaningful

But then again, I don't believe that dating is worth it anyway when there's no mutual dependency and you cannot relate to each other.

I think social media, if it’s used as a way to find yourself a few social circles rather than a girl, is a pretty useful tool.