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<blockquote data-quote="KJ" data-source="post: 71544" data-attributes="member: 1"><p>[URL unfurl="true"]https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8597186/[/URL]</p><p></p><p>Growing evidence suggests that <strong>people have a bias for decisions that move romantic relationships toward commitment rather than dissolution.</strong> Single individuals appear to be open to a broad range of dating partners (<a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8597186/#bibr120-10888683211025860" target="_blank">Joel, Eastwick, & Finkel, 2017</a>; <a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8597186/#bibr136-10888683211025860" target="_blank">Kurzban & Weeden, 2007</a>) and motivated to see potential dating partners in a positive light (<a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8597186/#bibr25-10888683211025860" target="_blank">Berscheid et al., 1976</a>) to the extent that they will overlook potential flaws and incompatibilities (<a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8597186/#bibr70-10888683211025860" target="_blank">Eastwick et al., 2011</a>; <a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8597186/#bibr126-10888683211025860" target="_blank">Joel et al., 2014</a>; <a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8597186/#bibr205-10888683211025860" target="_blank">Slotter & Gardner, 2012</a>). People in new dating relationships tend to become rapidly attached to their new dating partners (<a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8597186/#bibr75-10888683211025860" target="_blank">Fagundes & Schindler, 2012</a>; <a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8597186/#bibr111-10888683211025860" target="_blank">Heffernan et al., 2012</a>) and adjust their dating standards to match their partners (<a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8597186/#bibr44-10888683211025860" target="_blank">L. Campbell et al., 2015</a>; <a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8597186/#bibr94-10888683211025860" target="_blank">Gere & Impett, 2018</a>; <a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8597186/#bibr96-10888683211025860" target="_blank">Gerlach et al., 2019</a>). The decision to move in with a romantic partner is often made with little conscious deliberation (<a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8597186/#bibr149-10888683211025860" target="_blank">Lindsay, 2000</a>; <a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8597186/#bibr159-10888683211025860" target="_blank">Manning & Smock, 2005</a>; <a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8597186/#bibr196-10888683211025860" target="_blank">Sassler, 2004</a>; <a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8597186/#bibr212-10888683211025860" target="_blank">Stanley et al., 2006</a>). Such investments, in turn, serve as barriers to relationship dissolution (<a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8597186/#bibr137-10888683211025860" target="_blank">Le & Agnew, 2003</a>; <a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8597186/#bibr190-10888683211025860" target="_blank">Rusbult, 1980</a>, <a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8597186/#bibr191-10888683211025860" target="_blank">1983</a>; <a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8597186/#bibr226-10888683211025860" target="_blank">Tran et al., 2019</a>). <strong>The decision to end a relationship tends to be highly effortful and difficult</strong> (<a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8597186/#bibr57-10888683211025860" target="_blank">Dailey, Pfiester et al., 2009</a>; <a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8597186/#bibr123-10888683211025860" target="_blank">Joel, MacDonald, & Page-Gould, 2018</a>; <a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8597186/#bibr229-10888683211025860" target="_blank">VanderDrift et al., 2009</a>), even when the relationship is unhealthy or even abusive (<a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8597186/#bibr13-10888683211025860" target="_blank">Arriaga, 2002</a>; <a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8597186/#bibr14-10888683211025860" target="_blank">Arriaga et al., 2013</a>; <a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8597186/#bibr192-10888683211025860" target="_blank">Rusbult & Martz, 1995</a>).</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="KJ, post: 71544, member: 1"] [URL unfurl="true"]https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8597186/[/URL] Growing evidence suggests that [B]people have a bias for decisions that move romantic relationships toward commitment rather than dissolution.[/B] Single individuals appear to be open to a broad range of dating partners ([URL='https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8597186/#bibr120-10888683211025860']Joel, Eastwick, & Finkel, 2017[/URL]; [URL='https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8597186/#bibr136-10888683211025860']Kurzban & Weeden, 2007[/URL]) and motivated to see potential dating partners in a positive light ([URL='https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8597186/#bibr25-10888683211025860']Berscheid et al., 1976[/URL]) to the extent that they will overlook potential flaws and incompatibilities ([URL='https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8597186/#bibr70-10888683211025860']Eastwick et al., 2011[/URL]; [URL='https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8597186/#bibr126-10888683211025860']Joel et al., 2014[/URL]; [URL='https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8597186/#bibr205-10888683211025860']Slotter & Gardner, 2012[/URL]). People in new dating relationships tend to become rapidly attached to their new dating partners ([URL='https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8597186/#bibr75-10888683211025860']Fagundes & Schindler, 2012[/URL]; [URL='https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8597186/#bibr111-10888683211025860']Heffernan et al., 2012[/URL]) and adjust their dating standards to match their partners ([URL='https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8597186/#bibr44-10888683211025860']L. Campbell et al., 2015[/URL]; [URL='https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8597186/#bibr94-10888683211025860']Gere & Impett, 2018[/URL]; [URL='https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8597186/#bibr96-10888683211025860']Gerlach et al., 2019[/URL]). The decision to move in with a romantic partner is often made with little conscious deliberation ([URL='https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8597186/#bibr149-10888683211025860']Lindsay, 2000[/URL]; [URL='https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8597186/#bibr159-10888683211025860']Manning & Smock, 2005[/URL]; [URL='https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8597186/#bibr196-10888683211025860']Sassler, 2004[/URL]; [URL='https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8597186/#bibr212-10888683211025860']Stanley et al., 2006[/URL]). Such investments, in turn, serve as barriers to relationship dissolution ([URL='https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8597186/#bibr137-10888683211025860']Le & Agnew, 2003[/URL]; [URL='https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8597186/#bibr190-10888683211025860']Rusbult, 1980[/URL], [URL='https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8597186/#bibr191-10888683211025860']1983[/URL]; [URL='https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8597186/#bibr226-10888683211025860']Tran et al., 2019[/URL]). [B]The decision to end a relationship tends to be highly effortful and difficult[/B] ([URL='https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8597186/#bibr57-10888683211025860']Dailey, Pfiester et al., 2009[/URL]; [URL='https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8597186/#bibr123-10888683211025860']Joel, MacDonald, & Page-Gould, 2018[/URL]; [URL='https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8597186/#bibr229-10888683211025860']VanderDrift et al., 2009[/URL]), even when the relationship is unhealthy or even abusive ([URL='https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8597186/#bibr13-10888683211025860']Arriaga, 2002[/URL]; [URL='https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8597186/#bibr14-10888683211025860']Arriaga et al., 2013[/URL]; [URL='https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8597186/#bibr192-10888683211025860']Rusbult & Martz, 1995[/URL]). [/QUOTE]
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