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<blockquote data-quote="Deleted Member 44" data-source="post: 9493" data-attributes="member: 44">Nt is just being able to keep the right psychological distance with someone based on the lvl of confort you feel with this person, you naturally sense those things with the feedback you receive ect.Only thing that can hold someone is anxiety stemming from not enough interaction with peoples which make you think too much it's like that with everything new you can't anticipate it's new create a bit of anxiety but it quickly go away by interacting a bit, then you get a feel and you can expect how an interaction is somewhat going to play ect anxiety reduce. Chemicals imbalances can also hold you, mood swings ect basically you are not yourself.Your personality in itself will never be a problem unless mental illness ect which aren't common.You can't really change yourself and you shouldn't try to adopt things like dark triad ect that you see on the internet.Peoples who are dark triad are just dark triad they never had to go on internet to apply it, it's genuinely their personality.Go outside, be yourself, try to adjust but if you keep on getting rejected by someone and they don't feel you, move on and don't look for solutions on internet copying someone, by doing this you are basically making the conclusion that every person on earth is like the person who rejected you and you should change to satisfy them so you then get everyone you want. It's not very wiseAnd obviously looks matter it's the first thing every one see before you even open your mouth but it isn't everything in the equation.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="Deleted Member 44, post: 9493, member: 44"] Nt is just being able to keep the right psychological distance with someone based on the lvl of confort you feel with this person, you naturally sense those things with the feedback you receive ect. Only thing that can hold someone is anxiety stemming from not enough interaction with peoples which make you think too much it's like that with everything new you can't anticipate it's new create a bit of anxiety but it quickly go away by interacting a bit, then you get a feel and you can expect how an interaction is somewhat going to play ect anxiety reduce. Chemicals imbalances can also hold you, mood swings ect basically you are not yourself. Your personality in itself will never be a problem unless mental illness ect which aren't common. You can't really change yourself and you shouldn't try to adopt things like dark triad ect that you see on the internet. Peoples who are dark triad are just dark triad they never had to go on internet to apply it, it's genuinely their personality. Go outside, be yourself, try to adjust but if you keep on getting rejected by someone and they don't feel you, move on and don't look for solutions on internet copying someone, by doing this you are basically making the conclusion that every person on earth is like the person who rejected you and you should change to satisfy them so you then get everyone you want. It's not very wise And obviously looks matter it's the first thing every one see before you even open your mouth but it isn't everything in the equation. [/QUOTE]

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