The NE vs SE is probably what's easier to notice.
SE exert a vibe of control or like it's said in descriptions latent threat. When they are somewhere they just take up place even if not actually physically imposing it's hard to ignore them specially if they don't want to be ignored they will make it that they are not ignored. They can sit back and observe more though sometimes.
There is 2 SLE usually. One who try to take control of the situation anywhere he go and the one who live to just break the rules.
ILE
Well NE in the cloud very slippery you can never quite get them it feels like, too volatile. Getting attention its with there proposition and what they say that is always most disconnected from the reality but can also be very clever when they see something other missed they try to get other fascinated capture attention with this kind of mental exploration. Either peoples follow them or they do not. With that they get a reputation for this and they can become liked cause people always subconsciously wait for them to make those clever comments that come effortlessly to them. Even if disconnected its entertaining for people and can be useful.
SLE like i said will make sure you can't ignore them. To get attention usually anywhere will just take on the role of leader and try to show everyone they are better at something that is valued there and position themselves as superior, will try to prove it and take on the challenge so that no one can question them. When they have control over a situation it feels like they cover all sides and there is no weakness.
When unhealthy they will once again break rules too to get attention if needed.
But with ILE its more so again arguing try to make other look stupid trying show everyone how incredible there mind is. Can even try to act confrontational too when arguing but its overdone and it's not in control and as intense as an SE base not really taken seriously. It's better used for its purpose as a defense.
With SLE it's not in the cloud, dreamy, eccentric they are more direct and bold with there energy it's being loud, scream, something taboo let me shove it in there face to shock everyone being as edgy as possible hence why always rape, sex, gore, murder with them and again the SI unvalued not caring about harmony help there they will do anything to get attention. Ishowspeed who is SEE is a good example.
If there is a certain trend or something they will make it a point to go completely the opposite direction. It's not something unseen but things people are already aware of but ignore cause it's grotesque and break the harmony they are aware and feel no shame breaking that.
Its has to with NE role who make a point of asserting uniqueness too the role it's never in control like the lead too so it result in them overdoing it with less effective results.
Said in the description of SE base
Asserts his own uniqueness, originality. Sees no need to get someone's approval for a particular action;
3. Role function -I - intuition of possibilities. Type Marshal (Zhukov, ESTP, SLE)
Periodically becomes pensive. He withdraws into himself, reflecting on the prospects of business and newly opening opportunities. By forcing himself, he achieves what others seem almost impossible. Boldly answers the challenge when his abilities are questioned. He considers himself endowed with an extraordinary mind. Captures the situation as a whole. Flexibly rebuilds if the case has lost perspective. In public, he demonstrates his erudition and fundamental knowledge with pleasure. Do not mind acting as a patron or philanthropist.
3. Role function + I - intuition of possibilities. Politician Type (Napoleon, ESFP, SEA)
Strives to present himself as an original, non-standard personality that does not fit into any framework. Tends to oppose others. Can support a conversation on any topic, demonstrating his knowledge of a little bit of everything. Information grasps quickly, but shallowly. Periodically thinks, plunging into himself. At such moments, it seems to him that people perceive him not as he really is. Quite capricious and fastidious. He will not fail to emphasize his wide possibilities and great prospects. Often at the same time he argues and disagrees, defending the opposite point of view out of principle.
With NE lead they don't try to assert this as much it just happens they are not even aware cause the lead is so strong its the constant method of perceiving things.
SE just has an intense oppressive like energy you can't miss.
NE someone who is not there but still here too at all time. He drift then comeback and repeat